People who have survived trauma often feel like life is more difficult for them.
They may feel like it’s impossible to let their guard down and be themselves around others. They may struggle to be authentic or show weakness.
It’s really normal to wonder what other people think about you.
I’ve heard clients say things like, “I have an opinion but I’m afraid of their reaction”, “it’s easier to say nothing because then I won’t say the wrong thing”, or “I’m so busy stressing about what to say that the moment passes and my comment isn’t relevant anymore”.